The Best of Refractive: Surrender to Greatness

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For the Best of Refractive, turn the dial back to February 2020 for an all-time favorite episode- powerful, raw, uplifting. Enjoy "Surrender to Greatness." Magnificence is our birthright. The illusion of struggle, expectations, status, and what's "fair" causes us to actually fight against our own greatness as we desperately seek to control our existence. We can begin to see life as a series of threats and hardships. The truth is: something IS hurting us, and it's US. The self is the only opponent powerful enough to drag us down. And when we put down the weapon and realize that we were fighting shadows, our true power begins to manifest and doors swing open. In this episode of Refractive Johnny G looks into the saga of our battles through examples of interpersonal relationships, the epidemic of shame, and growth lessons from the allegory of Adam and Eve's fall from grace. Are you ready to surrender? Because despite our best efforts, while we can temporarily blind ourselves to it, our magnificence will win in the end. For coaching services or speaking engagements, contact host Johnny Guidry at refractivepodcast@gmail.com For similarly themed content, try these other episodes: You Already Know, You Already Are and Making Peace with Our Dark Side More information on living your most authentic life is found at RefractiveCoaching.com and RefractivePodcast.com

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Investigating the Fear of Abandonment with Connie Monroe

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The fear of abandonment is one of the most common and most damaging types of anxiety. It involves an overwhelming worry that people close to you will cease to be available (physically or emotionally). Whether through walling yourself off, sabotaging relationships, or developing unhealty forms of attachment, it can seem nearly impossible for someone with a fear of abandonment to develop healthy relationships. Author and life design coach Connie Monroe joins host Johnny G as they discuss their experiences with this paralyzing fear, how it contributed chaos in each of their lives, and how they found relief and healing. For more information or to contact Connie Monroe, visit www.MonroeCoaching.com. You can find her book, "Holding onto Joy through Abandonment and Divorce" on Amazon.com. For information on coaching services or speaking engagements, contact host Johnny Guidry at refractivepodcast@gmail.com or visit www.RefractiveCoaching.com. For similarly-themed episodes, try Healing Parental Trauma, Redefining Grief, or Spiritual Healing through Toxic Relationships.

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Finding Perfection in Darkness and Tragedy

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This episode of Refractive offers insights, experience, and guidance on Finding Perfection in Darkness and Tragedy. Host Johnny G offers suggestions on how to learn to see the world as completely perfect, even as we find so much suffering and chaos around us. This episode challenges listeners to recognize the blessings contained in our own shortcomings, and to have compassion and empathy for those who, in their painful confusion, might seek to hurt us. Johnny Guidry is a motivational speaker and spiritual coach who supports people who feel called to a soul-driven life. For questions and support, reach Johnny at refractivepodcast@gmail.com or visit www.RefractiveCoaching.com. For similarly-themed inspiring content, try these episodes: Making Peace with Your Dark Side and If I'm Angry with You, the Problem is Me.

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Trusting Your Gut with Matt Hogan

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In this episde, "Trusting Your Gut," Executive Coach Matt Hogan Joins host Johnny Guidry to share inspiring stories of self-discovery and practical guidance on learning to follow your intuition towards a more satisfying life. One fateful day, following a period of darkness and intense struggle, Matt decided to end his life. To his horror, he later woke up in a hospital with a bullet in his head and a temporary inability to walk. While recovering in the hospital, in what he describes as a major turning point, Matt felt a message rising within himself that it was time for a new way of living. His path led him out of the hospital and up the corporate ladder before eventually leaving everything behind to pursue a new calling: travelling the world while helping people learn to listen to their intuition. Matt joins host Johnny G as they share their best tips on getting in touch with your gut, discerning between inner wisdom and false fears, and finding the courage and clarity to step boldy onto your best path. You can reach Matt at Matt@MattHoganWorldwide.com, and find his helpful free workbook at MattHoganWorldwide.com/Clarity. For help getting unstuck, or for speaking engagements, reach out to host Johnny Guidry at RefractivePodcast@gmail.com or visit RefractiveCoaching.com. For similar themes, try these episodes: Who Do You Think You Are?, Learning to Use Intuition, and You Already Know. You Already Are.

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Heal Yourself: How to Design a Joyful Life

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In this episode, host Johnny G wraps up the Heal Yourself series by sharing how to design a joyful life. Johnny discusses the difference between happiness and joy, the building blocks of joy, how joy relates to love and passion, and offers a tactical exercise for redesigning your life around joy and contentment. The book referenced by Johnny G during this episode is "The Velvet Rage" by Dr. Alan Downs. For episode questions, or for information on coaching services, keynote speaking, or workshop and retreat facilitation, contact host Johnny Guidry at refractivepodcast@gmail.com.

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Heal Yourself: Nutrition and Nourishment with Hally Brooke

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This episode in Refractive's ongoing "Heal Yourself" series welcomes Hally Brooke, Certified Functional Medicine Nutrition Counselor and Nationally Board Certified Health and Wellness Coach. She joins host Johnny G to discuss Nutrition and Nourishment, how the foods and substances we intake are respnonsible for the great majority of chronic illnesses today, and offers suggestions on simple ways to enhance our quality of life. Johnny shares his experience as a compulsive binge eater and how he found freedom and healing. Finally, Hally speaks on the power of loving yourself through nutrition, and the link between bodily wellness and spiritual wellness.

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Heal Yourself: Inner Peace Part 2

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In part 1 of the Heal Yourself: Inner Peace episode, host Johnny G discussed how security affects our inner peace. Now in part 2, he focuses on how our concept of satisfaction can either enhance or diminish inner peace. Johnny reviews 3 primary factors that affect how satisfied we feel with our lives: fears, expectations, and intuition. Grab a pen and a journal and prepare to go on an inner exploration to challenge and reprogram the ways we unintentionally diminish our inner peace. And, spoiler alert, the solution lies in changing how we relate to this complicated world, not in securing more stuff and more experiences. But you already knew that.

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Heal Yourself: Inner Peace, Part 1

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Why is inner peace so elusive? How can we find serenity in a world that feels so chaotic? In the second episode of the Heal Yourself series, host Johnny Guidry explores acceptance and inner peace. He presents the building blocks of inner peace, common roadblocks, and a series of exercises to help you identify where you are sabotaging your own serenity. This topic is broken into two pillars, each with it's own episode. Part 1 covers Security, and the next episode, Part 2, covers Satisfaction. Contact host Johnny Guidry with any questions or to book speaking or coaching services at RefractivePodcast@gmail.com.

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Guided by God with Jennifer Standish

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What would you do if, in a vision and guided by God, you were told to sell your home and your belongings, move across the country, and start helping people heal? Didn't that sort of experience end with the Old Testament? Clearly not! Jennifer Standish shares her inspiring story of faith with Refractive's Johnny G, who also had a revelation to leave his old life and follow a new, God-driven path. Jennifer explains how she handled the enormous shock and was able to honor this divine directive, move through her fears, and build a new life and career from the ground up. Find Jennifer's inspiring book "Permission Granted" on Amazon. To learn about how she can help you change your own life, connect with her at LinkedIn.com/in/JenniferStandish or on instagram at @give_yourself_permission. To book host Johnny Guidry for speaking or coaching engagements visit www.RefractiveCoaching.com or email him at johnny@refractivecoaching.com. For similarly themed episodes, try Reshaping Your Life after a Spiritual Awakening or Spiritual Visions with Marlon Fixico.

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The Best of Refractive: The Ancient Truths of Acceptance and PLINKO

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In honor of reaching season 4 of Refractive -- can you even beleive??? -- host Johnny G shares one of his all-time favorite episodes, truly among The Best of Refractive: The Ancient Truths of Acceptance and PLINKO. Johnny explains that the key to serenity is letting go of any judgments of the present moment. This episode blends personal experience, spiritual concepts, and everyone's favorite game from The Price is Right for a deep dive into letting go of painful stories that keep us from peace.

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